Courtship 103

The greatest mistake a person can make is to choose a wrong spouse.Choosing a wrong spouse is a bite from a Cobra. Its venom wont just blind you but will kill you. We have been made to understand that approximately 75 % of people receiving a bite from a cobra snake will eventually die from the medical complications arising from the bite. A wrong choice is death to the spirit. A majority of people are suffering today for the wrong choice they made yesterday. Don’t do it! It’s a destiny killer. Picking a wrong spouse speaks death and destruction.

Some curious people might say , “Why is she talking like this? Is she a victim?” Hmm,,,I will be glad to give you an answer. No. I’m not a victim but I was an inch away from settling down with the wrong person. I thought deeply and made up my mind to cut off the relationship. When you stop thinking, you will start sinking. Most people are engulfed with the fun of today that they have sold their tomorrow for Pottage. Ask Esau, he’s in the best position to tell you. Do you remember that he sold his birthright to Jacob for Bread and Pottage (Gen 35: 29-34)? What a pity!

Please don’t sell your destiny for the deceit of the Devil. It good to enjoy the fun and grace the present has to offer but a vision into the future is glorious. I decided to take a thought trip into the future and I said to myself,” If I continue in this relationship, there will be a divorce in future.” It didn’t take me long to arrive at a decision that will catapult me into a flourishing destiny. I broke off the connection. I ran for my dear life .

Was the present with the person good? Yes it was. Then why do you have to leave? For the plan and purpose of God for my life to be fulfilled.

Praise God! Halleluyah! I ran for my dear life in spite of pleas. I thank God every moment for giving me a brain. May I say this? Some of things that are happening to us does not require prayers. Most of them require a deep thought. Lack of knowledge is destroying a majority of people. God hasn’t given us our brain for decoration-we need to make use of it now. Heir of Salvation, I can now join the psalmist to say ,

“My soul has escaped as a bird from the snare of the fowlers; The snare is broken, and I have escaped….124:7”

Seek God’s mind before you make a move. Remember that His thoughts are higher than our thoughts and His ways are higher than our ways (Isa 55:9). God is your Creator-He knows what is best for you.

I thank God for my new beginning. He has proved Himself faithful to me and He will do the same for you. My God will settle you in you own land.

Glory to God!
In My Thoughts!